What Are The 9 Best Greek Weddings Traditions?

Have you ever been to Greek weddings? Our neighbors invited us to celebrate their first wedding anniversary, a wedding that included several Greek traditions.

One of the best ways to see how a traditional Greek wedding goes is to watch “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” movie. It exaggerates a bit in some points, but that is the spirit when tradition is followed.

As I knew tradition was essential to them, I looked to buy them a traditional gift to take to the party. This website has dozens of ideas and inspired me to gift them the coffee-table book about Greece that matched the traditional anniversary gift of paper.

Here I’ve written about some of the symbolism in the Greek wedding ceremonies. It is not all about plate smashing!

So, how Greeks organize their Greek weddings? You do want to read this post too, about what to know for dating Greek men, and this one for Greek mothers

If you plan for a wedding in Santorini, then read this guide for Santorini weddings.

Greeks are easy-going but do read this post about why not pissing off a Greek.

Setting the Wedding Date

The months of January and June are considered good months for marriage due to links back to the ancient Greeks, where January was the month dedicated to Hera, the wife of Zeus, and the goddess of marriage and fertility.

The Romans later translated Hera to Juno and dedicated the month of June to her.

July is usually the latest one, and September seems to be the newest trend. August is generally avoided, as many are on vacation.

Before the Wedding Ceremony

There’s a ritual of making up the marital bed the day before the wedding that some families still do today.

In the couple’s marital bed are thrown money, sweets, rice, and almond, each symbolic of the commitment they are making to each other.

In some traditions, they tend to throw or pin money to their clothes. Family members and close friends usually do that.

Another tradition “dictates” to put money in the bride’s shoe. It is common in Greek culture to aid the new couple with as many things as possible to start their new life well.

As a blessing of fertility, a baby is then rolled on the bed, and it is said that the couple’s first child will be the same gender as the baby who rolled the blessing.

Koumbaro and Koumbara

The best man or “koumbaro” helps the groom prepare for the wedding and the “koumbara”, or maid of honor, helps the bride to dress and be prepared for her big day.

The Greek Wedding Orthodox Ceremony

Greek Orthodox Church marriage ceremony is divided into two parts.

Both of which take place at a small bridal altar on which there’s a tray holding the wedding crowns, the betrothal rings,  a couple of candles, wine, and a bible.

The Betrothal

The priest blesses the rings three times, then the bride three times and then the groom three times.

The rings are placed on the tips of the ring fingers, on the right hands of both the bride and groom.

Then, the “koumbaros” exchanges the rings three times between the bride and groom.

Three relates to the holy trinity, and the exchange assures the couple they complement each other.

At the end of the betrothal service, the bride and groom are each given a white lit candle, which they hold for the rest of the service.

The candle is symbolic of God’s light and a reminder for the couple to stay within that light.

The candles must be used entirely so they can be left in the church to burn out or be taken home. What is essential is that they never are thrown away.

The Marriage Service

After the first part of the service, the priest takes the two matrimonial crowns, known as “Stefana”, and first crowns the groom and then, taking the second “Stefana,” which is attached to the first by a length of ribbon, crowns the bride.

The koumbaros then exchanges the crowns between the bride and groom three times.

The crowns symbolically tie the couple together for the rest of their lives and symbolize the union of two people.

Two readings follow the couple take their first steps as a married couple as they walk around the matrimonial altar three times.

They also drink wine from the common cup.

There’s a final blessing, the crowns are removed, and the service is ended with a closing prayer.

Wedding Receptions

Generally, wedding receptions are spirited and involve a lot of dancing.

The bride celebrates by leading a raucous dance known as the “kalamatiano,” where the entire bridal party joins hands and skips in a circle.

Other dances are the “sirtaki”, the “tsamiko,” and the rowdy “zebekiko,” and there are more that are linked to particular families or regions.

Koufeta (Dragées)

Fresh sugar-coated almonds are usually part of the couple’s wedding, representing purity, fertility, and endurance.

They are either thrown on the marital bed with the money and rice, eaten by the bridal party while getting ready or handed out as favors.

Smashing Plates

Hollywood would have you believe this happens at every single Greek wedding, and while that may have been true at one time, it is now officially banned in many places.

Learn more about Greek names etymology, and Greek food.

Photo credits: Nick Karvounis on Unsplash

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